Initiating sex is sooo pre- MeToo movement. Inviting someone to have sex is much more hip read: consensual and gender-inclusive. Chris Donaghue, sex and intimacy expert at SKYN Condoms , explain the misogynistic undertones of the former, and how an invitation to sex is a consensual and pleasure-based approach to getting it on. Doing anything for the first time is going to feel a little nerve-wracking. Think: swinging a golf club, driving on the left side of the road, meeting your maybe-to-be parents-in-law. The best case scenario — be it pleasure, naked bodies, cuddles, or something else — is totally worth overcoming those feelings for. The same goes for where you are during said initiation. Especially if your boo is a good listener.

Have a faux affair. (With your partner!)


... but it’s never too late to start
There comes in a time in any relationship, regardless of how happy you both are , that the sex component can take a dip —whether it's hormonal, stress-related, or you've just been with the same partner for so long that no amount of pillow talk or date nights will make you want to get intimate. But when things get a bit monotonous in the boudoir, it is possible to spice things up. We put together a list of expert—and reader-approved—sex tips that people say have helped them spice things up. As Nelly says, "It's gettin' hot in herre, so take off all your clothes According to tip number one! Juliana Morris suggests leaving something on—from a fierce pair of heels to a sweet string of pearls—getting almost naked can bring out your sexy side. Men, try going commando, and just unzip your jeans!
2. Point Out Sexy Moments In Movies
QQ: When having sex with a new partner for the first time, would you rather it be mediocre, or mind-blowingly fantastic? If it's the latter which I hope it is , then you've come to the right place Allow me to drop some tea that hardly anyone dishes: Your sex life won't hit its peak until you master the sex talk.
Why is it so much easier to have sex than it is to talk about sex? Particularly in romantic relationships, the topic tends to feel awkward, uncomfortable, and sometimes even unnecessary. But the reality is you'll want to figure out a few ways to broach the subject, especially if your goal is to create a stronger connection.