However it does serve up a nice excuse to spice things up romantically. Do 'it' before dinner instead of after. Put on some music, light the candles, have a pre-party cocktail and hit the sack before the steak. This way you have no excuse after dinner to forfeit fun time because you are 'too tired. By taking home base off the table, you can find other ways to pleasure one another that might end up being more fun and intimate. Bring one new thing into the bedroom to play with. Whether it's a blindfold, a piece of lingerie or a sex toy, inject a new something-something to spice things up.
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That being said, if the spirit of the holiday has you looking to turn up some extra heat in celebration, then by all means, explore the shit out of that. If you and your person can't be physically together this V-day, no worries. Sex toy brands like We-Vibe and Satisfyer have apps that pair with their vibrators and sex toys. When you download it to your phone, you can control the pressure, speed pulses, etc. This is especially perfect if you want to sexify V-day because, with consent from you, it also lets your partner control your toy from their phone too. This means that regardless of if you and your partner are social distancing or 10, miles away from each other, your partner can join you during your masturbating session to make a super sexy V-day present.
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Picture this: After waiting in line for an hour, you and your boo are packed into some snobby restaurant, where you shell out an excessive amount of money on Cupid-themed "small plates" and are so surrounded by strangers, you can't hear yourself think. OK, after months of self-isolation, that probably sounds like a dream. Unless you're Monica Geller, the concept of planning something sexy may seem antithetical to the essence of sexiness itself. While you don't have to write an exact script of everything that's going to happen, a little effort can go a long way. From couple's massages to sex bucket lists, there are plenty of saucy activities that will bring the heat at home. Whether you're into the holiday or not, Valentine's Day is a good reminder to give your love a little extra attention. Minus the gifts and the glam, Feb.
Valentine's Day is right around the corner, and we've already given you plenty of ideas for gifts for your sweetheart , ways to decorate your home and adorable cards to send to your loved-ones in the mail. But let's get down to business. Is your bedroom Valentine's Day ready? We spoke with a renowned sex coach, Amy Levine of Ignite Your Pleasure to get sexy bedroom ideas and tips to make a few simple changes so this space is a scene for red hot romance. Amy Levine: Often the bedroom can be a catch-all of clutter, rather than a sensual haven. Look around your room and take note of the sights that cause you to be stressed out, overwhelmed or anxious, and remove them. Levine also listed the 5 common culprits that turn out to be sources of "sexual sabotage. Clothing - This includes both dirty and clean laundry. Put clean clothes away in your closet and dirty clothes in the hamper as soon as you take them off except the items you strip off in the heat of the moment as you're getting it on.
