Ah, anal sex. For booty lovers and those who like a particularly tight hole, anal sex can feel absolutely divine. Instead, you feel the orgasm everywhere, from your head to your toe. But you need to find the right position in order to experience all that pleasure, for both the top and the bottom! And if you don't try anything else, you might be missing out on some of the mind-blowing sensations that come with exploring your or your partner's back door. So, if you're looking for some creative new ways to have butt sex, we've got you covered with this list of the 20 best anal sex positions that aren't doggy style. This list describes how to pull off each position from the perspective of the person doing the penetrating, but I'd like to note: All of these anal sex positions have been tried out by yours truly as both the top and the bottom. Remember that lube is your friend for all things butt sex and all things sex, in general. So before you test out these positions, check out our picks for the ten best lubes for anal sex. And if your partner has a vulva and wants to try penetrating you in any—or all—of these amazing anal sex positions, you might want to check out our comprehensive guide to pegging.
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Science is currently trying to figure out why so-called prostate orgasms feel so intense—but, frankly, the why is unimportant. So, I talked with Sex and Relationships coach Dr. Charlie Glickman, PhD, who literally wrote the book on prostate pleasure to explain just how to enjoy this under-appreciated erogenous zone. Glickman's first point? Plus, porn stars are people who are likely having anal sex multiple times a week.
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As a gay guy, there will probably come a time when a straight guy asks, confused, why you'd let another guy stick his dick in your bum. For anyone inexperienced in arseplay, getting fucked can sound painful and it's hard to imagine how it could be pleasurable at all. But there are several reasons some guys prefer not to top, and why some will proudly tell you they're a power bottom. Those of you having a good time bending over for some D will know how it can get you harder than ever and have you shooting cum like crazy. Ever wondered exactly why that is? The anus consists of two rings of muscle and a literal buttload of nerve endings. Because of the concentration of nerve endings here, a finger, dildo or dick going inside and stretching the anus is going to be very simulating. Initially, prostate stimulation might make you feel like you need to pee a bit, but this is just your body readjusting to a sexual response from stimulation. To avoid pain and damage, take slow steps and build up so you can play hard safely.
Every guy I've dated has requested anal at some point, even to the point of begging. This experience seems to be ubiquitous in heterosexual relationships. Why do men love anal sex? Does anal really feel that much better than vaginal sex? What's the appeal?